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Hey there, I´m Nefe

Qualified Life Coach and Learner

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I help women conquer self-doubt and Claim the Confident life They Deserve

Ready to laugh in the face of fear, banish that pesky self-doubt, and strut into your most confident life ever? Let’s make it happen—no apologies, no limits, just unstoppable you.

It’s time to create your dream life

Define Your Actions to Create a

LIFE THAT WALKS, TALKS & SCREAMS FOR YOU

Together, we’ll turn self-doubt into self-assurance!

Show Up Where It Matters

Your voice belongs in the spotlight. We pair confidence-driven insights with strategic keywords so your empowering message reaches the women who need it most.

No Cookie-Cutter Coaching

Every journey to unshakeable confidence is unique. That’s why we craft each piece from scratch, reflecting your authentic style and inspiring others to thrive.

Empathy Meets Empowerment

We believe in words that uplift and connect. By blending compassion, clarity, and a touch of persuasion, we guide your audience from curious to committed—ready to take that bold next step.

Certified Life Coach & Empowerment Specialist

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HEY THERE, I´M NEFE OGUNTOYE

if you’re ready to swap hesitation for empowerment and turn those secret ‘I wish’ moments into ‘I did it!’ milestones, you’re in exactly the right place.

I’m Nefe Oguntoye, and I’ve spent over a decade helping women ditch their doubts and embrace their true worth. If you’ve ever looked at someone else’s life and thought, “I’ll have what she’s having,” let’s make that happen—for you.

My bespoke coaching sessions are tailored to spark your confidence, break down those lingering barriers, and get you living a life that genuinely excites you.

Based in London, I connect with women all over the UK and beyond through my online sessions. Let’s take the guesswork out of thriving.

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HONESTY

I believe in real talk—no sugar-coating, no empty praise. Drawing on evidence-based coaching principles, I’ll offer straightforward guidance that respects your goals and time. By naming what’s truly holding you back, we’ll set clear, measurable targets and celebrate genuine progress.

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INCLUSIVITY

Born in Nigeria, seasoned across London, Ireland, Wales, and Kent, I understand that every culture and background shapes who we are. My coaching room is a judgement-free space where your unique experiences are seen, heard, and valued—because growth blooms when everyone is truly included.

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PARTNERSHIP

Coaching isn’t a one-way street; it’s a collaborative adventure. As the eldest of four, I learned early how to lead with warmth and empathy. Now, I’ll help you lead your own life with grace and decisiveness, always treating our work like a team effort with mutual respect and accountability.

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INTENTIONALITY

No one-size-fits-all solutions here. Our sessions are tailored to your unique journey, ensuring each step we take has purpose. By moving with a clear vision, we create sustainable momentum—so you grow at your pace, but with unwavering focus on what truly matters to you.

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HOW CAN I HELP YOU

Free Resources

Boost your confidence with our FREE Affirmations Bundle, Self-Coaching Workbook, and Self-Love Guide—download now and start creating a more empowered, fulfilled life today!

Empowerment Tools

Need a little boost you can revisit anytime? My online shop is a treasure trove of resources—planners, eBooks, and more—that act like your own personal pep squad. It’s all about practical support that fits into your life, not around it.

Life Coaching Services

Bid farewell to self-imposed limits. My 1:1 coaching programmes are designed to tackle self-doubt head-on. We’ll cultivate the confidence you’ve been craving and create a sustainable action plan—so you can stop hovering on the sidelines and start living centre stage.

LOVE NOTES FROM THE PAST CLIENTS

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“Since working with Nefe, clarity has become my new default setting. She’s all about straightforward guidance—no fluff—just the boost I needed.”

DIGITAL MARKETING SPECIALIST

LAURA J

“Working with Nefe felt like having a personal trainer for my mindset. Her practical, uplifting support transformed my outlook and my results.”

CREATIVE DIRECTOR

HANNAH R

“Nefe truly listens—like, really listens. I felt understood, valued, and inspired to step out of my comfort zone and into my potential.”

SOFTWARE DEVELOPER

PRIYA S

A PROFESSIONAL LIFE COACH makes a big difference.

Picture this: you’ve decided to bake the perfect lemon cake for a party. You skim a recipe, throw in some ingredients “by eye,” and hope for the best. Unsurprisingly, the cake turns out flat as a pancake and twice as dense. A professional life coach is like the master baker who walks you through a proven recipe (your goals and vision), making sure each “ingredient” aligns with your values and aspirations. Suddenly, you’re not throwing in random bits—you’re following a clear, tailored plan that’s designed for success.

But even the best recipe can flop without accountability. Imagine your master baker coach periodically popping in, making sure you’ve actually measured the flour and set the right oven temp. It’s not bossy—it’s supportive. Now you can’t secretly skimp on sugar or forget the baking powder, because someone’s there to keep you on track. That consistent check-in is exactly what transforms vague good intentions into delicious, tangible results.

Finally, a good coach brings a fresh pair of eyes—pointing out that maybe you’re adding vanilla when what you really need is lemon zest. In life, we’re often too close to our own habits and doubts to see obvious tweaks that can elevate us to the next level. With your coach’s unbiased perspective, your new and improved lemon cake—like your life—rises beautifully, leaving everyone (especially you) grinning and ready for the next challenge.

10+

YEARS OF EXPERIENCE

99%

SATISFIED CLIENTS

10k+

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DOWNLOAD THE SELF-ACCEPTANCE WORKBOOK

This 55-page guide is your roadmap to breaking free from self-doubt and embracing who you truly are. 

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