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Hey there, I´m Nefe

Qualified Life Coach and Learner

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LIFE COACH, LEARNER AND AVID LISTENER

Behind the scenes

HEY THERE, I´M NEFE

Don’t allow your imperfections to define you. Rather, let them serve as guiding lights, illuminating your path to true greatness!

Have you ever felt like you were living in the shadows?

It’s just like standing at the edge of a school dance, silently hoping someone will spot you.

Deep down, I sensed a spark of creativity—a feeling that I could succeed, be happy, and truly make a difference. Yet I battled with weight issues that sapped my confidence, ruled my decisions, and convinced me I wasn’t good enough. I simply accepted the circumstances I was given, without ever considering that I could change them.

I spent my life striving to please everyone, just to feel accepted.

But in 2014, I hit a turning point. My frustration at being stuck in an unfulfilling job, the emotional burden of meeting everyone’s expectations but my own (or perhaps the absence of any real expectations at all), and never truly being trusted to make big decisions—I finally snapped.

I was tired of clinging to others for emotional security. I wanted to be my own person, accountable for my own happiness. I realised I’d known who I was all along; I’d been dreaming about it my entire life. And by God, I decided I was going to start living my life on my terms.

That’s exactly what I did. I met a coach at church and began my journey of self-reinvention. I left the job that no longer served me and started making changes.

Was it easy? 

No—it was incredibly hard.

I had to confront limiting beliefs, build my self-esteem, and learn to love myself. I had to overcome negativity. But what I gained was self-respect, and no one can ever take that from me again. I have a voice. I’m no longer invisible. I have a purpose. In 2023, I became a qualified life coach—living proof that it’s never too late to change course.

Today, I teach women how to transform their mindset and empower themselves to create their best possible life.

Remember: each of you has a unique gift to offer society. We all possess an entrepreneurial spirit, whether you’re in a nine-to-five job or running your own business. You are brimming with ideas and dreams. The journey towards your best self begins with a single step—let’s take that step together.

Claim Your Power, Transform Your Life

  • Only you possess the power to change your life—no one else can do it for you.
  • Only you possess the power to shift your circumstances, break free from limitations, and rise above every obstacle.
  • Only you possess the power to transform your dreams into reality, igniting your true potential and turning your hopes into tangible successes.
  • Only you possess the power to create and live your best life, embracing fulfilment each step of the way.

I’ve done it, even when it felt like the world was stacked against me, and that same power lies within you. If I could overcome my challenges, so can you!

ONE OF MY GOALS IS TO BE FEATURED IN:

MY SERVICES

RESOURCES

CONTACT ME

10+

YEARS OF EXPERIENCE

2

COURSES LAUNCHED

12

GUIDES & WORKBOOKS LAUNCHED

26K+

SOCIAL FOLLOWERS

10K+

SUBSCRIBERS

99%

SATISFIED CLIENTS

Fun facts about me

A LITTLE MORE ABOUT ME

A serene beach at sunset with a palm tree and a wooden lounge chair.

My happy place

Wherever the beach is laughing

The Backstreet Boys posing together in coordinated grey outfits.

Favourite band

The Backstreet Boys – They ruled my childhood

A collection of neatly arranged books on a shelf with a small plant in the background.

Currently collecting

So many books. Check my recommended books.

A cup of caramel cappuccino with a delicate latte art design.

Favourite Drink

Caramel cappuccino with semi-skimmed milk

Close-up of a woman holding a smartphone with neatly painted nails.<br />

I can´t live without

My phone – sad but true

Take the next step..

It is time to stop sabotaging your happiness and start believing in yourself. You can do anything you set your mind to and I have the tools and resources to help!

2014

THE YEAR I STILL FELT STUCK

I previously worked for a prestigious music accounting firm in London. While I loved my job, the long days and constant dining out took their toll on my body and mind—I was utterly exhausted. I knew I needed a change. Fortunately, that change came when I met a woman at my church who introduced me to the world of online business, sparking a major transformation in my life.

2015

THE YEAR THAT CHANGED EVERYTHING

Starting the business with my friend ignited my passion for personal development. As I delved into reading and courses, I began to notice significant changes in myself, and others did too. People started to inquire about my transformation, leading me to recommend books and resources. This journey made me feel lighter and more confident, inspiring me to dream bigger and envision a brighter future.

2016

I LAUNCHED MY FIRST BLOG

As the same questions kept arising from those curious about my journey, I decided to establish a dedicated space to share my insights. This led to the creation of my first blog, originally named ‘Explore Freedom Nation.’ My aim was to inspire others to dream big and cultivate true ‘freedom’ in their lives, offering a platform for guidance and inspiration.

2020

A YEAR OF GROWTH AND CLARITY

In 2020, the COVID-19 pandemic dramatically changed my life. I lost three family members, was made redundant, and moved back with my parents—all in one month. This period of intense change drove me to deep self-reflection. Noticing many high-performing female friends struggling with doubt, I began researching and sharing strategies to help them regain confidence and security during these challenging times.

2023

AWESOME YEAR!

In 2023, after years of battling my own imposter syndrome and informally advising friends and family, I decided to formalize my expertise and become a qualified life coach. I pursued this certification not only to silence the nagging doubts in my own mind, which attributed my success to mere luck, but also to equip myself with scientifically proven tools to help others overcome their insecurities. Armed with these tools, I launched my first eBooks and coaching packages, and I’ve been moving forward ever since, helping others release doubt and unleash their true confidence.